Did You Catch These Episodes?

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I’m back with a fresh roundup of not-to-be-missed content.

This time, I’m shining the spotlight on some recent podcast episodes. Topics include fat positivity, weight stigma, weight science, Intuitive Eating and more.

Informative, insightful and engaging, these shows are bound to make your next cleaning session, road trip or flight fly by.

Ten Percent Happier: Anti-Diet Series
In this two-part series, host Dan Harris explores our often complex relationship with food and our bodies, including his own struggles, with actress and activist Jameela Jamil and anti-diet dietitian and author Christy Harrison.

Part 1: Jameela Jamil on Mental Self-Defense

Part 2: How to Embrace the Anti-Diet with Christy Harrison

I also encourage you to listen to Dan’s life-changing episode with Evelyn Tribole, one of the co-creators of Intuitive Eating.

Maintenance Phase: Is Being Fat Bad for You? [Spotify | iTunes]
Hosts Aubrey Gordon and Michael Hobbes dive deep into the research to challenge the simple and harmful narrative we’ve been fed regarding health, longevity and weight.

Burnt Toast: Healthcare for Fat People is Based on the Premise that it's Acceptable to Kill Us to Make Us Thin
Author Virginia Sole-Smith chats with activist Ragen Chastain about fighting weight stigma on behalf of our bodies.

I also highly recommend checking out Ragen’s whip-smart newsletter Weight & Healthcare.

Full Bloom: Why Should I Give Fat Positivity a Try?
Host Zoë Bisbing talks to therapist and activist Dr. Rachel Millner about what it means to be fat positive, including how to raise fat-positive children and break the cycle of intergenerational weight-related trauma.

As always, I hope this content helps support you on your journey toward a peaceful relationship with food and your body.

5 Thanksgiving Don'ts

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Along with all the yummy food, the Thanksgiving holiday often comes with an unsavory serving of diet culture.

For a satisfying, peaceful eating experience, keep in mind these Thanksgiving don’ts:

1. You don’t have to earn it.
Despite what diet culture wants you to believe, you don’t have to do anything to earn your Thanksgiving meal. You don’t have to do an intense workout or not eat all day to deserve a spot at the table.

2. You don’t have to make up for it.
Just like you don’t have to earn the right to eat, you don’t have to make up for your eating after the holiday by working out extra hard, skipping meals or starting a cleanse or diet.

3. You don’t have to justify.
Whether it’s having seconds or thirds, filling your plate with mostly mashed potatoes, or eating pie for breakfast, you don’t have to justify your choices to anyone. You have the right to eat whatever you want, whenever you want.

(For tips on handling the Food Police in your life, head on over to here.)

4. You don’t have to feel bad.
Diet culture wants you to feel bad, out of control, weak, guilty and ashamed for eating a lot. You don’t.

It’s normal to sometimes eat simply for pure pleasure and to sometimes eat until you're stuffed, especially when enjoying foods that are novel and only around for a brief period

5. You don’t have to participate.
Just like people who avoid discussing religion, politics and money, you don’t have to participate in diet and weight talk.

The easiest way to navigate it, especially when you’re dining with a wide range of people, is to nonchalantly change the subject.

For example, if your uncle starts raving about his latest diet or your mom comments on someone's weight, steer the conversation toward a different topic, such as “I’d love to know what shows everyone is into right now” or “What’s your favorite holiday memory?”

Of course, these five don’ts are helpful to practice not just on Thanksgiving, but every day of the year.

P.S. Consider taking a moment this Thanksgiving holiday to reflect on everything you appreciate about your body, whether it's your arms for enabling you to hug loved ones, your nose and tongue for helping you savor all the yummy food, or your eyes for witnessing the change of seasons.

How Strong is Your Diet Mentality?

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Did you know that the first principle of Intuitive Eating is “Reject the Diet Mentality”?

This step is critical because having a dieter’s mindset disconnects you from your body's wisdom, including your own internal cues that tell you what, when and how much to eat.

When you operate with a diet mentality, you eat according to external factors and rules (e.g., calories, points, macros, good/bad foods, fixed schedule, etc.) rather than honoring your body’s needs, desires and preferences.

Approaching food with a diet mentality can make eating a fraught, unsatisfying experience and lead to a disordered relationship with food.

Ultimately, having a diet mentality erodes your ability to trust yourself, your body and your instincts, and negatively impacts your physical and psychological wellbeing.

Diet vs. Non-Diet Mentality
Even if you aren’t on an official diet or have never dieted, you may still have a diet mentality due to our pervasive, insidious diet culture. It’s the voice in your head that sounds like this:

Diet Mentality

Non-Diet Mentality
In contrast, the non-diet mentality—that is, the Intuitive Eater voice—sounds like this:

  • Am I hungry?

  • I can have anything. What do I want?

  • What sounds yummy and nourishing?

  • Do I want this particular food?

  • Will I feel deprived if I don’t eat it?

  • Will this food satisfy and sustain me?

  • Is this tasty? Does it hit the spot?

  • I trust my body to tell me what it needs.

  • I honor my hunger and cravings.

  • I'm feeling full. I can have more later if I want.

  • I don't feel guilty, anxious or ashamed about my eating.

Where do you stand with the diet mentality?

This Feels Scary!
Rejecting the diet mentality can feel pretty scary, especially if you’ve been trapped in this mindset for a long time. You may fear that if you let it go, you’ll lose control, eat “badly,” never stop eating, and completely go to pot.

These fears are totally understandable.

In time, however, they will start to fade as you realize that it's the dieting mindset—the deprivation, restriction, micro-management, hyper-vigilance, moralism—that prevents you from having a peaceful, intuitive relationship with food and your body.

Your fears will further subside as you reconnect with your inner signals—your hunger, fullness, desires and satisfaction—and rediscover that your body is the only guide you need when it comes to nourishing yourself.